honestly, its not something i would change for me its something i would change for someone else... When i was about 15 or 16 my dad started feeling numbness in his right arm, but we (me and my mom) just assumed he was complaining to complain... when i was 19 the numbness turned to pain and we finally got it checked out... it turned out to be a lemon sized tumor on my dad's lung that had formed on one of his nerves... so what i would change would be that instead of kinda joining in with my mom to call him a whiner we had taken him to the doctor and made them x-ray him then... so maybe he would still be here now... because that would be the most amazing thing ever... i loved him so much and i miss him everyday and have been missing him for almost ten years now...