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- December 7, 2010 by Ourlife
- To Have Loved and Lost
Better to have loved and lost. Most times it's worth the loss. The love we go through in life is also what makes us stronger, as individuals.
I wouldn't be the woman/wife I am today had it not been for my past 'loves'.
Loving each for diffrent reasons. In diffrent ways. But teaching me what it is in a man that I desire. Showing me the 'type' of man I deserve.
I went through some rough phases, and I even lost myself at times. In every relationship, no matter how long, I grew in some way.
You learn more about yourself, and about the type of men/woman that you apprecaite. Or can tolerate. I would change some circumstances, but would not change the encounters.
I have alot of learning and loving to still do. I'm just getting started. I thank God for taking His time to properly prepare me for the man He had destined for my life.