well one thing i think i always avoid is when people bring up things ive done in the past. mistakes specifically. like its not that i want to be oblivious that ive done them but i dont like the idea of reminiscing on it, like i dont wanna wasyte my time on it like ive alrready learned frm it why does someone have to go and make it awkward to bring itup in conversation? idk i know i needa be more matyure but it just makes me feel ashamed of myself as fuck. makes me wanna crawl in a hole and never come out.