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    • No School Reunion fo Me
    • New Bradford High School 3

      I was impressed to actually find a photo of my high on Flikr. Of course it didn't look quite like that when I went to school.
      When I went to school way back then, I didn't exactly fit in. My upbringing hadn't taught me certain social guidelines. I have two siblings, one older and one younger, who didn't suffer the same shyness. They seemed to adjust to a normal life style easier than I. (Whole different story) They can talk and laugh with most anyone.
      Not me. If I talk to a stranger I generally turn fifty shades of red, I cannot think of a single thing to say. After working serving tables, I've learned to be more comfortable around people, but shyness can be rough on some people. I think it's genetic because my daughter was the same, and so are her two younger children.
      Back to the school thing. I have thought about it, but if people had no interest in me then, if I had no interest in my classmates why would I go? I did make a few friends that I really liked, but they weren't the lifelong type friendships.
      Besides, that is when the 'hippie' movement was going on. I was a little protester back then. I marched against the Viet Nam war. I helped change the dress code so that girls could wear pants. It's freaking cold in Wisconsin, too cold for skirts and dresses. Those actions sound odd for a shy person, but belligerence was my shield. When you're passionate about something, you can find speech. Besides I could always duck behind my friends!
      So the kids that did know me had perceptions about who I was without actually asking if they were right. I used to skip school and go the museum which was kitty corner from the school. The library and I were friends. Of course the general consensus was that I was out with those hippie people. Very funny now. I forgot about some of that until this prompt. Hmmmm.....wonder what Kenosha looks like now?

       
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    maggielr said:
    I too was very shy in High school. I always felt left out, or at best, on the fringe. It is true, people are drawn to those they were friends with so it could be tough. Thank you for convincing me that missing my upcoming reunion is not a big deal.
    posted over 2 years ago
    leggygillin said:
    lol No problem. I think there are a number who won't lose sleep over skipping that reunion.
    posted over 2 years ago

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