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- Let's settle this: Is it better to have loved and lost, or never to have loved at all? See all answers
- April 21, 2011 by mydelirium
- 'Tis better
Even though sometimes relationships don't work out, or sometimes an unrequited love will never be returned... it's always better to hold someone in your heart with a fond regard, than to have never experienced the amazing feelings that come from within when you're with that person...
I speak from my heart when I say that I have moved on but I will always love Jon and I will always love Minneh, but I will only hold the happiness in my heart rather than the pain. I will never forget the way it hurts, the way they hurt me and the way I hurt them... but I loved them both as much as I could give. I was happy with them, as happy as I could be. I would prefer to hold on to those good feelings and to still care about them... to than have never experienced any of it at all.