people talking in paris

The question is interesting. The temptation is to answer the very personal question rather than take on the "potentially embarrassing challenge." The problem with the second one is the potential for injury. No one said you would be injured, but . . .
Then there's the image thing where you offer yourself up as a good laugh or a ridiculous but funny image someone can carry through their entire life at your expence.
I won't do that.
The first one, though, I do that all the time. My friends do it too. Hell we've known one-another forever. Why not? Male or female or mixed, it doesn't matter. We are always saying something we shouldn't say about ourselves.
Somewhere, right now as I write thousands of people are telling thousands of other people things about themselves that they have absolutely no reason or business in the world to know.