Men can be such total shits...after about 5 years, my BF at the time moves away - we were kind of on-again-off-again for the previous 6 months to that. After about 3 months of him being away, he calls me up and begs me to move to where he is and all will be well. So I tried to quit my job, but fortunlately, my boss at the time convinced me to take a leave of absense "just in case". So i pack up my little car and off I go. Fortunately (again) I do NOT move in with him right off the bat but move in with a friend of mine in the same area. My FIRST day over at the BF's place and he's in the shower. The phone rings and he says "hey can you get that?" to which of course I did...and there's some chick on the other end asking for said BF. When BF gets out of the shower I tell him that "girl" called asking for him and, o btw, who exactly is "girl" anyways?! He replies: "o, yeah, I've been seeing her since i moved but I haven't broken up with her yet cuz i just wanted to see how things work out with us first"...."Well" I replied, "how fortunate for you" and I walked out to never see him again. Two months later he called me and asked me to go to Mexico with him...um...fuck no loser!!