sexy has depth. sexy makes your head woozy and your skin tingly. sexy can be as quiet as leaning close and whispering in your ear. and sexy can be as raucous as a midnight drum circle around a bonfire. sexy can be as subtle as one voice singing along to the song your dancing to or as overpowering as a night at the opera.

don't get me wrong, slutty has a place in the world, it's perfectly capable of being exciting and fun. but at the end of the night slutty washes off the hooker blue eyeshadow, tosses the party clothes in a corner, wraps up what's left in a down comforter and falls onto the bed laughing and exhausted...and that's sexy.