He not only dated my roommate behind my back but married her. It ended in divorce. I don't believe when thing's meant to harm another are done and spite is used it never turns out good. The funny thing is over the years I forgot her name. It didn't bother me that he did this (honestly) is was just the sneaking and betrayal that stung me a little. I thought I could trust them both. WRONG.. My life went on to be very successful and blessed. After I accepted her betrayal as my best friend I was over it in two seconds flat. Ultimately, I was happy for them both! true love is true love and I guess if you have to cheat, lie, and steal to get it, go for it but be careful what you wish for :)