Because I'm the oldest I always had a lot more responsibility. I take a motherly role also. I'm a natural leader but sometimes I like to follow because being a leader always is tiring. I think I can be a perfectionist to a degree. I'm always mindful of others because I've had to watch out for my brother and sister. I have that typical oldest child personality I think. I set high goals for myself and I think my parents put pressure on me that they don't put on my sibs. But thats the way it is.