I was at my cousins house (I think for christmas), I'm sitting on their lounge and on the opposite side of the room is my nan. My mum walks past and says to both me and my mum that i've gotten bigger, so my mum replies by saying oh you mean taller and my nan says no she's gotten bigger. To that my mum says well that's funny seeing as she is wearing clothes she's had for 2 years and their actually a bit big for her now.

There are many other times my nan has insulted me making family gatherings awkward, because no one knows what to do. On one hand they want to stand up for me but on the other hand they don't want to yell at an old lady. So now i just don't go to see her at the old peoples home, i just wait for family gatherings so far i've only seen her once this year and once more at christmas, but that's it.