The most confusing part of life to me is determining what everyone's role in my life is. My husband offers me companionship, love and security and my daughter offers me unconditional love and innocence. Think about each person in your life and what role they play in your life. I know several people that give me a headache but is that really their role? I know people that test my patience. I know people that need help mentally and need a shoulder to cry on, which I have always done. I know people who have medical issues and I have helped them with support and recovery.

I do believe there is a purpose for each and everyone one of us and we cross paths with others for a reason. I don't think our path has been planned because each and every one of us has been given free will to choose which path we will take. Our destiny is not predetermined but at times it is influenced by others in our life whether it is a positive or negative.

Now that I'm getting older I go more with what my gut is telling me. I make informed decisions most of the time and ask for advice when needed. I say what is on my mind and listen to others but I DO NOT like to be pushed into a decision and can be stubborn at times.

Everyone has had their own like experiences which has made them who they are today. Again I ask what roles do these people play in your life. Do you believe in karma? I know the help that I have given I have received 10 fold.