• FuchsiaLips
      • hello Arian Mae Uy
      • Username: FuchsiaLips
      • In response to: "Who are you?" Who am I? I'm someone whom I totally do not know for there are a lot of mysteries in me that I am not aware about. I'm still finding who I really am so I won't gonna brag :P
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    • On Same-Sex Marriage
      • This is quite a touchy issue and am aware of the religious movements are so against this. I'm on neutral grounds. Though even if I'm on that ground I still think that a man should go for a woman. In the first place why was there a woman in the first place if it wasn't for a man right? Okay maybe I have this biased thought here because I'm Straight and I want to marry a man someday. But...


        ....there's always a but not all people are like me who's straight. As much as I want myself to be happy I want them to be as happy as I am too. Most of my friends are lesbians, gays and bis-I love them all. They've been very loving and supportive and I have always been grateful for them. The best that I want for them is to be happy.

        Why I support this other than me having most of my friends in the LGBT group? Who can really tell people what's right or wrong? Just because the Bible said so? No offense to Christians or Catholics with your beliefs sadly mine is just wee bit different. (I'm gonna be aware of some harsh comments coming like saying I'm going to hell and everything. I have heard enough of those and that doesn't affect me so...I'm just saying what I think-peace)

        If two people thinks they love each other regardless if they have the same sex and think that they should marry-why not? I think no one should stop them or tell them it's ridiculously wrong because of this and that. Just because something is so unconventional and it doesn't mean it can already be a bad thing. The people belonging to the so called LGBT are just being themselves and why not give them the equal right like us, Straights(like how people would call it) We are just as human as them, aren't we? They have feelings too and like us they can do whatever they want as long as they won't harm others while doing so, right?

        I know most would call this 'sin' if that's what you think then think of it as sin well it's not you who is 'sinning'. Let's just mind our own business here and do what we think is right for us.

      • answered by FuchsiaLips on 05/16/2012
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    • L'cie for a year
      • I had been having 2nd thoughts on having a tattoo myself but not just any tattoo. I want something with a meaning to it. Funny because I've been choosing between my own design of butterfly or a Pulse L'cie design. Seeing this prompt though I think it would be cool if I can have a tattoo for a year I would love to have a Pulse L'cie brand.


        I believe any Final Fantasy gamers out there is aware of the story behind having a L'cie brand particularly the Pulse ones. At FF13 a Pulse L'cie were considered enemies of Cocoon and they are the most unwanted. The Cocoon citizens thought that Pulse L'cies are a threat to them. It is because it's what the Sanctum is telling their people of who those Pulse L'cies. The truth is though the Sanctum who follows the every whim of the Cocoon Fal'cie is the one wrong for they are being fooled and were strung puppets to the Fal'cies whims.

        Cocoon has their own L'cie brand too which is the ones at the right on the picture while the other one at the left is a Pulse L'cie brand.

        A L'cie is a person bound to a will of the Fal'cie or what they call a 'Focus'. A L'cie should fulfill their 'Focus' whether they like it or not within a time period or else they'lll become 'Cie'ths'. Cei'ths are L'cies who didn't fulfill their focus on time. They suffer by having their bodies distorted like pile of rocks and lost their minds completely ending up as fiends. But when a L'cie fulfills his/her focus they will become crystal statues forever asleep in that form unless the Fal'cie wakes them up again.

        The brand is connected to the L'cies emotion that a simple shock can trigger the brand to change and lessens the time of the L'cie's deadline for his/her focus. That trigger also can make them into instant Cie'ths.

        Why I'm choosing this as a tattoo design is not only because I love Final Fantasy. I just find the Pulse L'cie brand is very meaningful for in this society people would easily judge you for what they see. Being a Pulse L'cie meant you're a tyrant even if you're really not. I just really can relate to it people always mistakes me for someone they think I am and I think that brand fits me so well.

        Another is though I believe we are not L'cies but we do have a 'Focus' in life(Fal'cie bestowed or not) I want to turn it into a positive spin that I'm a live for a reason and that I have a 'Focus' to fulfill as long as I live.

        Will I ever decide to get inked someday with this brand I always have a 'Focus'

      • answered by FuchsiaLips on 05/16/2012
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    • Traits of My Good Friends
      • Loyalty is one trait that I value the most when it comes to friends.


        Unlike other people who have such big circle of friends, I on the other hand only keep a very few close friends I love the most. I'm really quite a loner though I love to meet other people,unfortunately I'm not the type who would trust people easily.

        For me trust should be earned. I do the same thing to others. I show them they can trust me and I believe when trust is the subject it comes together with loyalty.

        People are generally nice-often when they need you. It's one sad truth to accept. When you're down and you need them they aren't there and only a few would be there at your side or no one at all.

        That somebody or someone for me I consider a loyal and a loving friend. Who will be there for me no matter what; won't listen to anybody who tells ill words about you unless they asked you if it's true...and lastly they'll protect you on any harm's way that might befall you no matter what it is.

        Sadly that trait of a friend is rare nowadays. Making it hard to trust people or even be friends with them.

        I have been reading Fairy Tail lately and for me the best example of a loyal friend for me is Natsu Dragneel. He's a Dragon Slayer Wizard at a Magician's Guild called 'Fairy Tail'.

        Natsu is a very straightforward person. He considers his fellow guild mates not only as friends but also as family. There were a lot of incidents were he got into so much trouble because he would fight anybody who harms his friends or belittle his guild.

        In the latest chapter he went to another guild and waged a fight to the proud guild master of 'Sabertooth', Gemma. After finding out that he belittled an ex-member(Yukino) for loosing the tournament. He just met Yukino those times but the moment he found out about the injustice it didn't matter to him who that girl is...all he knew was that it was wrong and that guild master has to be punished. He challenged Gemma and told him 'If I defeat you then you'll leave the guild okay?'

        Who knows if he'll win? I bet the Gemma is way stronger than him but he didn't care. He'll get a piece of him no matter what. I know that's not a very practical solution to settle things but I really admire that trait of him. It would be so nice to have a friend like that though I have to restrain him sometimes lol

      • answered by FuchsiaLips on 05/16/2012
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    • My Middle Name
      • My middle name 'Ebanculla' (Pronouncing the 'n' as 'ng') For me is the greatest twist to being who I am.


        People would always wonder what my race really is. I look Chinese but I'm a bit dark to be one then I'm a bit too light to be a typical Filipina-I look strange and growing up was hard when you look like you can't be 'categorized'...and I won't forget those oh so 'nice' comparisons my Chinese teachers did to me with my sister who's so 'radiantly' Chinese in skin. It's something that I found hard embracing growing up and it took a LONG while.

        The truth is I'm not just Chinese and Filipino. I'm also part Spanish. I'm proud of my roots and I'm happy I get to be born in the Philippines; having my surname Chinese and my middle name in Spanish. All 3 of my main identity in my full name. What is more to ask?

        Then if ever they'll doubt how come I become Spanish without having round eyes. I'll just say 'check my middle name, babe^_~V' I don't mind them not believing for God knows it. He knows it better than I do, maybe he knows I have more than 3 roots running on my veins. Though I really don't care what other people would say. Whatever my middle name should had been. I'll just be happy with what I have.

        I'm just really happy for the fact I was born in this world and get to live a life.

      • answered by FuchsiaLips on 11/04/2011
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    • To Cheat or not to cheat(choice is yours to make)
      • It's so easy to cheat! It's so easy to think that cheating is the only solution to anything. You cheat you get what you want-easily. You go ahead and do it-just make sure nobody catches you...


        Oops! I forgot to tell you! The 'Nobody' doesn't exclude that certain someone who sees everything-first hand. If you don't believe on that certain guy who sees everything think of it as this-it's just because you can't see that person it doesn't mean he doesn't exist. Just because you think nobody saw you is that it's okay. Another is don't tell me after cheating that you don't feel shame? If you feel nothing then-I should start pitying you then...

        To cut the chase, the moment you cheat is the moment you lie to yourself and cutting yourself short. (Where's that Pride of yours?)

        People who cheats-they have no self-esteem because they don't believe in themselves enough to do it the right way.

        People who cheats can't accept defeat and they think they should have everything they want-for short they are selfish.

        People who cheats think they are too smart to get over the barred fence-it's what they tell themselves to think that they are cool.

        Lastly people who cheat ends up as nobody in the end-why? For there are no skeletons in the closet that can't be revealed. Once these cheaters are to be revealed of their mayhem-no one would ever trust them again. No more friends even sometimes-family.

        There are more to what I wrote above those are just some of the few consequences. So ready. Get set. Cheat? :)

      • answered by FuchsiaLips on 06/15/2011
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