• bigstarlet
      • hello Helen Sventitsky
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      • In response to: "What's the one thing you're never gonna give up?" Rick Astley
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    • Plinky wants me to brag, so...

      • My five best qualities. Have at 'em, hons!


        I'm creative
        Or so I've been told. Not in a lot of things, but in music, and some art, some technology, and in getting myself out some bad situations. And sex.


        I'm smart
        I've got an IQ of 125. :p Not that it means anything.


        I'm self-aware
        Believe me, it took me YEARS to get to this point. Lots of therapy and acting classes.


        I'm loyal...but...
        don't push it. Ever. I'm not a fan of being tested. Especially by someone I don't really know personally. Go find someone else to pick apart, if you can't take me as I am. My real friends understand this, and don't go there. Someone earlier this year found this out the hard way.


        I'm giving
        The older I get, the more I find joy in providing. If not in money and gifts, then in time and motivation. Sometimes, the best way you can give is to just be there for someone.


      • answered by bigstarlet on 12/02/2010
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    • To Have Loved and Lost

      • punks in love

        Nay, as I found out, yet again, this summer. Sometimes, even if it's just aggravated lust, the pain, embarrassment and humiliation isn't worth it. Watch yourself, and watch others, and do some gauging, to see if it's time well spent.

      • answered by bigstarlet on 12/02/2010
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    • Yes, I was the roommate from hell

      • messy

        I tended to be the worst roommate, back when I was younger. Never cleaned up after myself, never got my shit together financially. Always got defensive when confronted with something. I think I'd be better now, due to not being so self-absorbed.

      • answered by bigstarlet on 12/02/2010
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    • MMMM...YES!!

      • Candy Cane Curve

        I've been married for 15.5 years. Despite the grizzled state of our relationship, we still find romantic things to do for each other. Such as drive down the coast on a rainy Valentine's day weekend, find a nice little hotel that's begging for customers, pay some scratch for as sweet lovely room, and find that the hubster had planned this all along, once we get into the room. :D

      • answered by bigstarlet on 12/02/2010
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