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- hello Teresa Edmond
- Username: teresaedmond
- In response to: "Who are you?" I am an award-winning reporter for two North New Jersey newspapers, The Suburban Trends and The Record. In 2005, I published my first book book of poetry "How Fate's Confusion Connects."
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teresaedmond's latest answers
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- Why I blog
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I blog because it's a constant writing exercise for me, more constant than being able to pound out a finished poem, or even more impossible, a novel overnight. Blogging is also a way for me to get over that writer's block when penning a poem or writing and editing novel manuscripts.
I always brainstorm creative writing ideas, but to get them from idea to polished form on paper takes a lot longer if it's a poem or a story, than if it's a blog post.
I'm a former journalist, so of course that meant I was writing daily. I started my blog back in 2009, when I was still a newspaper reporter in suburban New Jersey. Now that I'm no longer a journalist (nor do I have any itching desire to return to the media industry), I see blogging as a way to keep in touch with my writer's roots, in addition to my other daily creative writing endeavors.
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- Ladies, read this when going through a breakup
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It's been years since I've read this book, but when I went through a rough breakup, a friend gave me a copy of the book, "Woman, Thou Art Loosed!" by T.D. Jakes. The book gave me so much necessary insight during a time of confusion, anger and hopelessness.
"Woman, Thou Art Loosed!" is a devotional that reminds women about their uniqueness as individuals and as God's creations, the need to let go of the past, the need to express emotions, and to help women seek their core selves as God's image.
Throughout the book, Jakes recounts stories of women from the Bible, like Eve, Hannah and sisters Leah and Rachel, as examples of the ways women can realize their full self-potential.
I recommend this book as the first one to pick up immediately after a breakup.
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- Social media and me, simplified
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I do get social media, and interacting with my friends and family is one reason I'm there (a lot more people I know from face-to-face interactions are on Facebook than Twitter). But to be honest, there are way too many social media to choose from. And it seems like new social media websites crop up every day. I want to simplify my life by only using a few social media websites -- social media that, to me, are the most popular and have remained popular for some time due to the most people using it often. That is why I choose Facebook and Twitter. I also actively use Google+, and LinkedIn, and WordPress too (for blogging). I have a Pinterest account, but I very rarely use it. I'm not the type that hops on to the newest website because that would be just too much for me to maintain.
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- "Failing Forward" shows that failure is actually a good thing
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Everyone knows someone who is so afraid of taking that next step toward success because of fear of failure. More often than not, one needs not to look any further than him or herself.
That’s why book “Failing Forward: Turning Mistakes Into Stepping Stones for Success” by John C. Maxwell -- a book I've been reading lately -- has been such a refreshing book for me to read.
Many people believe that if one has failed again and again, they're taken further and further away from success (a belief I'm slowly pulling myself out of). According to "Failing Forward", on the contrary, failure just brings a person closer to success if he or she doesn't give up.
Why is it okay to fail, and to understand that failure is all part of the journey toward success? Because failure is just a reflection of mistakes, and mistakes in life are inevitable, no matter what the goal is.
Infused with stories of notable historical figures like pilot Amelia Earhart, golfer Arnold Palmer and surgeon and pioneer of antiseptic surgery Joseph Lister -- all who had their shares of failure -- "Failing Forward" illustrates the many ways a person can not only fail without fear, but turn that failure around to pave the way for success. This book shows, among other things, that failure is nothing more than a learning experience, that that experience does not define the person as a failure, and that the person him/herself should get out of the past and accept responsibility (and therefore control of his/her own life) for the failure if that person wants to move closer and closer to success.
I highly recommend "Failing Forward."
"One fails forward toward success." -- Charles F. Kettering
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- The 'why' of it all in my writing life
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I started keeping a journal at 8 years old, but my first piece of writing was when I was nine years old. It was for my class's show and tell, and of course that means the class had to showcase a particular talent. It just came to me that I enjoy writing, so I wrote my first poem "Colors." I really wish I knew where I put that copy, so I can transcribe the poem into this blog.
Why did I start writing to begin with? In addition to my passion for the written word, I'm a relatively awful orator -- simple as that. I found that it's really difficult to be interrupted when everything a writer thinks and feels puts all that on paper for others to read. I'm not a good orator; there are very charming and eloquent speakers, and I haven't been one of them.
I keep motivated because I need an outlet to express myself. Doing it in a public setting -- well, to be quite honest, I still don't like to stand up there in public and talk. That's the honest-to-goodness truth. And I still resent being interrupted when I'm in my expression mode (as has been the case with me on many occasions, but who hasn't been there?). I hate to basically be told to shut up, and I don't like being told my feelings are not 'valid' when I express them. Matter of fact, being told what to feel, how to feel or even *if* to feel is my number one pet peeve.
So I can be told to shut up or to be told that I'm ridiculous, overreacting, terrible, selfish, immature or insert whatever nonsensical adjective in there; and therefore, others can feel thumb-sucking justified in feeling superior than me, smarter than me, etc. But I won't stop writing. Hell, I can't stop writing -- it's in my blood. And as long as I have breath within me, I will continue writing until the end of my days.
