...The damn fact that nothing in life ever works our way!

In our lives,in whatever we do, we always find sometimes, at the end, things just don't work out for whatever reasons! Sometimes in a way where we don't get support or encouragement, or other times when we're just laughed at and kicked in the nuts! It could be a life-changing settlement, a soft corner for a person & even a career! At times we're stuck between making the choicest of decisions, or pursuing the thing we love so much!

At work,you got the best of an idea, and your firm's giving you the best of opportunities giving you a team and platform of members to show them your dream. But you got a lazy ass of people working behind you who just won't budge, sipping in their "vending-machine-water-coffee" in the morning and "facebook-gossipin" during lunchtime! All the works been thrown on you, no encouragement, no support, how are you supposed to "move on"?

Work pressure just kills,and your forced at doing the craziest things that'll get your fired eventually! (No! Not driving your car into your boss's parking spot, and having a street brawl with one of your colleagues!)

Relationship's a topic thats even more sensitive, and probably the highlight of this subject!

Let's take situation A, where you've met the person you feel, is "The One!", everything follows like rain from a monsoon cloud, both loving each other so much and willing to stick to each other for life! It's all a crazy romantic world out there, when suddenly, you get up next morning, shot down to reality with the sound of the phone crying to life,

"Hello!" (Its your parents on the line...)

"We don't like the guy, you are to stay away for me, that's final!"

Everything was built, every stone on that foundation was laid, the building had just needed to be inaugurated, when BOOM! It's a mindset explosion by (terrorists!)

How about we consider situation B. You're young, and in love (madly!) Both of you having your moments, its...amazing! You both realize that you'll are perfect for each other, you'll understand each other, and ending up together would be like the best icing on a cake (with a cherry on the top!). But then,you'll refuse to move forward,refuse to carry on with a 'relationship', cause things are just not right for whatever reason (socially,geographically..yeah, I'm talking long-dsitance...sucks! always!), and then like a pack of cards, everything comes crumbling down, after all the amazing times you've been together...the alone-time, the conversations, the messaging, the crazy mails, the...first kiss!

People say its fate with who you end up with...it is! There's always someone there whose gonna meet you one day, and keep that smile on your face smiling forever!

But that's a dream, a dream in life! Life is not what you fantasize the and world you create in your mind, its what you take of it, what you make of it and what it gives you! For some,its a battle to live, for the others its how fat they get sitting on a fatter pile of money, and for the rest, its just how hard the row their boats to the other end of the ocean of life!

Rightly as Charles Darwin said, life is all about survival of the fittest. If you don't fight, you gotta take flight! Can't always drop dead,pretend and wait for someone to pick you up, cause life's just stomp you over!

When we think about the world this way, just close our eyes and imagine the noisy silent battle outside our window, and in depressing situations like the ones I stated above, apart from sitting back home,alone on a couch with just one dim light in the corner to "brighten the room", a tub of chocolate (diet-free) ice cream melting away to a milkshake on the coffee table, and a book of some one else's depressing stories in on hand, we need someone to talk to, to pour out our heart, to relieve that big boulder of burden crushing our head...

That's when we turn to God...

Why is life like this?

We ask Him a million times...He just smiles,holds out a hand,carries us on the road of life and says "I love you"...

And then, we smile in a small tiny apartment, look into the heavens and say, "I know You'll take care of me!", rest our head on the pillow, close our eyes and sleep...(forgetting all complications of life and all its gunshots of confusion...just peace!)