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    • I get pangs every now and then.

      • the longest-distance relationship you maintain; Shah Alam to Singapore.. I still wonder how it works, but we've been "together" for a year..

        I suppose most of the credit should go to the boyfriend. After all.. he's the one whose been calling me since day one. (Which had gotten his phone bill so high that now he's using a different number.) We started using Skype after that. haha.

        In a way, he's the one who's been making sure that we're always in touch. All I've done was write letters and make silly little cards. bleh.

        It gets a bit frustrating at times though. Well, a lot of time, actually. I have no idea how anyone can go on without actually seeing and touching the other person for so long.
        Sometimes I feel like going mad.
        Sometimes I feel like I am mad for wondering about open relationships. hahahhaha!

        Boyfie won't be too happy reading that.

      • answered by wanie on 05/02/2009
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    • 'Tuesdays With Morrie' opened my eyes

      • My thoughts wandered to which book really called out to me as the one that had changed my mind and opened my eyes. It was close, between Tuesdays With Morrie and The Alchemist but I can't help holding one closer to my heart.

        There is something about Morrie's love for life. The little things he appreciate in life. He is exactly the person I'd like to be someday;
        to live every moment. Appreciate everything that life has to offer; no matter how un-incredible they are. Love.. with all my heart, for love is what holds your heart in the first place.

        I can safely say that I am a changed person since I read the book, but I'm not completely sure if it's for the better as I care more about what goes on in my life and can no longer ignore and just let things be. haha! Everything is personal, and I get emotional over them. sigh.

      • answered by wanie on 03/29/2009
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    • I was mean.

      • What's the worst way you've ever dumped or been dumped by someone?

        We were sixteen. We didn't really make things official. We just confessed that we liked each other and started hanging out. I can't remember if there was an actual date while we were together. We only see each other in school and at that time I wasn't in school much since I had an extra-curricular thing outside of school. We were sort of drifting apart and I've grown an interest to some guy from a different school that I met throught that extra-curricular activity. (I'm not proud of that.) So.. I wrote my guy a letter saying that things are not working out. And the last line of the letter I said, "..and I didn't actually said yes (to us going steady)". I can't remember if I gave the letter to him by hand or I had asked a friend to pass it to him.
        Almost everyday after that for the rest of the week, he'd wait for me after school, wanting to talk to me about it, but I blew him off every single time.

        Nothing actually happened between me and that guy from the different school. I blew him off too after a while. ughh. I was awful. But I guess my ex didn't think I was that awful since we're still friendly these days. hehe

      • answered by wanie on 03/28/2009
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    • Making out in Singapore

      • Where was your first kiss?

        I suppose I was kinda late to have my first kiss. (I'm a late bloomer, that's what I'd like to believe.)

        My boyfriend and I were just sitting, resting our legs after spending the last few hours walking around.. I had expected that we'll kiss some time during the day but when he actually leaned over and kissed me, I couldn't help but feel surprised.
        It was nice. It was really nice.

        I still remember how he'd looked.
        But of course, it was only a few months ago.. heehee

      • answered by wanie on 03/27/2009
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