i'm madder than you.

Lies and fakeness will certainly make my eyes roll. I absolutely dislike when strangers lie to me, but when my friends or family does it, It's taken to a whole different level. One particular situation that I will never forget, was when this one individual asked me out with them. When they were asked if we were related, they immediately placed a disgusted look upon their face as if they were asked something so terrified and/or embrassing. Although, I'm not sure if they noticed that I was paying attention or not, I most certainly was. Every since that moment I feel as if, whenever we do talk it's not sincere and their being fake with me, so our convo's are really short. I did take it seriously because I thought we were friends and it was just a simple yes or no response needed not looks of betrayal.
I know that it sounds petty and childish, but it's the respect/ loyalty that matters to me. I tend to overlook small yet foolish things like this, but when it comes from someone that supposely meant a lot to you, you can't help but take it as them being flat-out fake.

XOXO So-Chic.....

balancing elephant || Balancierender Elefant

The best advice I've ever received was from my close friend Kristole. She said "think of problems or worries as a big elephant, can you eat it in one bite." No matter how many problems you may have, you simply can't tackle them all at once. Priority is the most important way to, not stress about your worries. Calmness, is another factor in handling overwhelming situations.
I tend to latch out for advice from friends that I know will actually listen and not just blow me off. I do have a couple of friends that are like that and realistic with their advice. Have you ever had someone to tell you, you can create your own sun when you were venting about making the right car purchase? I have and that clearly states that they were not interested in what you were saying, only about what they have to say.

XOXO So-Chic